"The journalist wanted to know if perhaps menstruation was kept hidden just because it’s private, rather than shameful. I asked her to think about the ways our society structures work that compel us to keep it private and secret. For instance, how easily can you find menstrual products in your school or workplace when you need them? (There’s a tampon dispenser in the women’s room in my campus building, but the sign has read EMTY for the all the years I’ve worked there.) I also spoke with her about a terrific study by Tomi-Ann Roberts and her colleagues about attitudes toward menstruation, in which a research confederate dropped a hair clip in one scenario and a tampon in another. Dropping the tampon led the research participants to offer lower evaluations of the confederate’s competence and decreased liking for her; they even displayed a mild tendency to avoid sitting close to her. This suggests that women conceal menstruation for good reason – to avoid appearing disabled."
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Is Menstruation a Disability? | Society for Menstrual Cycle Research (via notemily) (via gauntlet)
To avoid appearing disabled or to avoid having people (i.e. men) cringe at you because they know you’re on the rag? Which is, you know, waaaay mega-ewww.
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I make a point of not refraining from mentioning that I’m on my period, if I am. If I have cramps, I complain about them the same way I might complain about sore legs after a workout. If I’m heading down to the bathroom I don’t tuck my tampon up my sleeve, I just carry it like I might carry my toothbrush. At first guys are all mega-eww but they get over it. I think that’s important.