On hurting the first time.

On the off-chance that the question-asker is keeping track of responses to this: GO TO A DOCTOR. You probably have a hymen like a brick wall and if you get a good gynecologist, they’ll do a minor procedure: either snip it or use absorbent dilators to expand it.

If you get really bad cramps, a crazy hymen could likely be the culprit in that as well. (Uterus muscles having to work harder to get everything out through aforementioned brick-wall-hymen.)

Good luck!

  1. erikawithac reblogged this from dearcoquette and added:
    this: GO TO A DOCTOR. You probably have...good gynecologist, they’ll do
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